Danie talks, & talks, & talks
Irish roots
l just returned from my first trip to Ireland and was fortunate to have a cup of tea in the very kitchen my grandmother (Mary Ann Towey-Towey) grew up in (with 13 siblings) She came to the USA in 1906 as a domestic worker, married and had 3 children...then she died in approx. 1920. She was from the Barnaboy section of Ballaghadereen.. l found this lovely poem written in 1930 which referred and seems directed to those who left dear eire' - the following is an excerpt:
"I've read your sweet songs and sensed the deep longing
That has filled your fond heart all the years in between
The loves and the mem'ries your soul ever thronging
Of each childhood friend and each youth imaged scene.
Few here are the friends who your memory are keeping
For many have gone far away o'er the wave,
And many,alas! Their last sleep are sleeping,
From troublings and strivings at rest in the grave.
They who remain yet send loving greeting
To you who have wandered far over the foam
And cherish the hope that they'll soon be meeting
The friend of their childhood again coming home.
Then come! leave the street and the mad and the fretting
Come back to the scenes that you trod long ago:
Rekindle your soul in your life's early setting,
Reward your heart in the old friendship's glow!"
Francis Davy-August 23, 1930..
l hope you enjoyed that.
lWhile in Ireland, I met a cousin of my father.....a lady closer to my age because Great-Granny Towey had the 13 children between 1887 and 1912. Anyway, Cousin Eva was truly, immediately a kindred soul.....felt like l knew her all my life....what wonderful woman, likewise her son...
She took my picture in a heather field.....l had a daughter named Heather who died when she was 28 and l had ordered for her headpiece and bouquet when she had married, live heather from Ireland.....the beauty and the smell of that wonderful little flower meant a lot to me that day in Ireland.
My dad called me Danny girl often and l spelled it that way until l got older and the mail would come as Mr. Daniel whatever....so l changed it to Danie....the reverse of Diane which had to legally be put on a birth certificate in those days. l have more relatives in England, both from dad and mom's family. With a little luck l shall go back someday.